I suspect,
that because those people and things that break us and mess us up,
make us dark and twisty for all our lives, just appear in our lives randomly out of nowhere,
without any reason or warning,

believing in the balance of the universe,
we somewhere think that things and people that will heal or save us, also can appear out of nowhere one day.

Yet, the realism is understanding that the universe is not balanced, it’s just cruel